We live in a worrisome age. Modern civilization brings
with it numerous reasons for stress and worry. At Thanks to modern technology
and industry, life has become far more complex than it ever has been before.
At the same time, stress and worry are nothing new. They have been
around since the dawn of human existence. It is only the order of magnitude that
has changed. Worry is, briefly put, the fear of the future – the fear of the
unknown that is to come. It is an old problem, and we can ask: What does Islam
teach us about how to cope with worry?
Islam acknowledges that fear is a
natural propensity for human beings. Allah says: “Lo! The human being was
created anxious, fretful when evil befalls him, and when good befalls him,
stingy.” [Sûrah al-Ma`ârij: 19-21]
The Qur’ân shows us that
even the Prophets felt fear. Allah says about Moses and Aaron (peace be upon
them both): “Both said: O our Lord! Surely we fear that he may hasten to do evil
to us or that he may transgress against us.” [Sûrah TâHâ: 45]
Elsewhere, the Qur’ân shows us that Moses (peace be upon him) was
fearful that Pharaoh would kill him: “And they have a charge of a crime against
me; and I fear they may slay me.” [Sûrah al-Shu`arâ’: 14]
Abraham (peace be upon him) felt fearful of the angels who visited him
and refused to partake of the food that he served them: “And certainly Our
messengers came to Abraham with good news. They said: ‘Peace’. ‘Peace’, said he,
and he made no delay in bringing a roasted calf. And when he saw their hands did
not reach towards it, he mistrusted them and conceived a fear of them. They
said: ‘Fear not! We are sent against Lot’s people].” [Sûrah Hûd: 69-70]
We read another account of this incident in the Qur’ân: “Has the story
reached you of Abraham’s honored guests? Behold, they entered his presence, and
said: ‘Peace!’ He said, ‘Peace!’ and thought, ‘These seem unusual people’. Then
he turned quickly to his household, brought out a fatted calf, and placed it
before them. He said, ‘Will you not eat?’ Then he conceived a fear of them. They
said: ‘Fear not!’ and gave him tidings of (the birth of) a wise son.” [Sûrah
al-Dhâriyât: 24-28]
Islam’s Cure for Fear
After acknowledging that it is natural
for people to feel fear and that everyone, even the Prophets, experience this
emotion, Islam provides two complementary steps for treating it.
1. Bringing to mind Allah’s presence and His constant
companionship:
This is illustrated by the story of Moses and
Aaron (peace be upon them both) when Allah commanded them to go to Pharaoh and
speak to him about the Children of Israel. They admitted to Allah that they were
afraid of Pharaoh’s tyranny and ruthlessness, but Allah consoled them that they
need not fear Pharaoh and his wrath, because Allah is with them: ““Both said: ‘O
our Lord! Surely we fear that he may hasten to do evil to us or that he may
transgress against us’. Allah said: ‘Do not fear. Indeed I am with you both. I
hear and I see’.” [Sûrah TâHâ: 45-46]
Allah also says: “And
when thy Lord called Moses, saying: ‘Go unto the wrongdoing folk, the people of
the Pharaoh: will they not fear Allah?’ He said: ‘O my Lord! surely I fear that
they will reject me. My breast will be straitened, and my speech may not go
(smoothly): so send Aaron to help me. And they have a charge of a crime against
me; and I fear they may slay me.’ (Allah) said: ‘By no means, so go you both
with Our signs; surely We are with you, hearing’.” [Sûrâh al-Shu`arâ’:
10-15]
Moses (peace be upon him) benefited from this valuable lesson
later on in his life. When his people tried to frighten him because Pharaoh was
pursuing them and gaining on them, his heart remained firm and he did not fear.
He knew that Allah was with him.
“So when the two hosts saw each other,
the companions of Moses cried out: ‘Most surely we are being overtaken!’ (Moses)
said: ‘By no means! My Lord is with me! He will guide me’.” [Sûrah
al-Shu`arâ’: 61]
2. Focusing the heart on the fear of
Allah:
The Qur’ân teaches us to fear Allah’s punishment and to
fear the Hellfire.
We read in the Qur’ân: “Allah had said: Choose not
two gods. There is only One God. So fear and Me alone.” [Sûrah al-Nahl:
51]
Allah says: “But for such as fear the time when they will stand
before their Lord, there will be two Gardens.” [Sûrah al-Rahmân: 46]
He also says: “And as for those who fear to stand in the presence of
their Lord and forbids their souls from low desires – Paradise will be their
abode. ” [Sûrah al-Nâzi`ât : 40-41]
The Qur’ân and Sunnah go
into great detail about Heaven and Hell and the delights and punishments that
they present. We know from the sacred texts that Hell is a place whose fuel is
men and stones, and that it will ask its Lord if there are any more to fill it.
We know that is guarded by fierce angels, and that its sparks are the size of
great citadels – among a host of other frightening details.
We know that
Paradise contains gardens filled all manner of delights and refreshment. Its
drinks are pure and its garments are of the finest silk. We know that even the
descriptions we have of the delights of Paradise are merely the vaguest
approximations of the truth, and that it holds other delights that are utterly
beyond our comprehension.
The reason we are told all this is so that we
can inculcate the fear of Allah in our hearts with the certainty that both
Heaven and Hell are true.
At the same time, the Muslim must expel from
his heart the misgivings that Satan whispers to him in order to make him fearful
for his life, his wealth, his family, and his future, his health, and a host of
other concerns.
Allah says: “It is only Satan who suggests to you the
fear of his votaries: Be not afraid of them, but fear Me, if you have faith.”
[Sûrah Âl `Imrân: 175]
Allah also says: “Satan promises you
destitution and enjoins on you to be sinful. But Allah promises you forgiveness
from Himself and abundance.” [Sûrah al-Baqarah: 268]
We must be
cognizant of the fact that whatever befalls us is not something random. It is
something that Allah has decreed for us since before He created the heavens and
the Earth.
Allah says: “No misfortune can happen on earth or in your
souls but is recorded in a decree before We bring it into existence: That is
truly easy for Allah.” [Sûrah al-Hadîd: 22]
He also says: “Say:
‘Nothing will happen to us except what Allah has decreed for us: He is our
protector.’ And on Allah let the believers put their trust.” [Sûrah
al-Tawbah 51]
Developing a Sense of Security
When a Muslim cultivates the
fear of the Hellfire in his heart and pushes away the imagined fears that Satan
tries to whisper in his heart, he develops a sense of security that keeps him
from worry.
This is what Abraham (peace be upon him) concluded when he
discussed with his people the two issues of monotheism and fear. First, he spoke
to them about monotheism, and clarified to them the error of their ways in their
worship of the Sun, the Moon, and the planets. He pointed out to them that all
those things depart when they set, whereas the Lord never departs.
After
explaining all this to them, Abraham (peace be upon him) declaerd himself free
from their polytheism and that he would only worship the Creator of the heavens
and the Earth. At that point, he breached other arguments with them with respect
to the topic of fear. He declared that he had no fear of their false gods, and
rebuked them in turn for their lack of fear for the one true God. He then asked
in scathingly critical terms who is it who should feel security: those who
worship Allah alone or the polytheists?
We read in the Qur’ân: “His
people disputed with him. He said: Do you come to dispute with me about Allah
when He (Himself) has guided me? I fear not (the beings) ye associate with
Allah: Unless my Lord wills, (nothing can happen). My Lord comprehends in His
knowledge all things. Will you not then be admonished? How should I fear that
which you associate with Allah, when you do not fear to give partners to Allah
without any authority having been given to you? Which of (us) two parties have
more right to security? (Tell me) if ye know’.” [Sûrah al-An`âm: 80-81]
In the next verse, we read the answer: “Those who believe and do not mix
up their faith with wrongdoing, they are the ones who shall have security, and
they are rightly guided.” [Sûrah al-An`âm: 82]
We read in the
commentaries of the Qur’ân that when this verse was first revealed, the
Companions were very worried about it. They asked: “Which of us, O Messenger of
Allah, does not mix his faith with wrongdoing?”
The Prophet (peace be
upon him) then explained to them that the “wrongdoing” mentioned in the verse
referred to polytheism, saying: “It is not as you understand it. Did you not
hear what the righteous servant had said: ‘O my son, do not associate partners
in worship with Allah. Indeed polytheism is a great act of wrongdoing.”?”
[Musnad Ahmad]
Therefore, the security mentioned in the verse
above is solely for those who believe in Allah and do not taint their belief
with polytheism.
We learn from the stories of Abraham and Moses that
overcoming fear and worry – and the attainment of security – is accomplished
through two things: (1) faith in Allah and (2) complete freedom from all aspects
of polytheism.
This means that a Muslim should fill his heart with the
sense of Allah’s greatness, the hope of Heaven, and the fear of Hell. He should
be ever conscious that Allah is with him. At the same time, he should dispel all
the baseless fears that Satan would inspire in his heart. He should remain aloof
from every form of polytheism.
In the lives of those two great Prophets
– Abraham and Moses (peace be upon them both) – we find the means to overcome
anxiety and worry.
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) told us that
Allah says: “My might and glory is manifest in my never visit upon my servant
two kinds of fear together, nor let him feel secure in two ways. Whoever fears
me in this world, I will make him feel secure in the Hereafter. Whoever feels
secure from Me in this world, I will make him fear Me in the Hereafter.”
[Hulyah al-Awliyâ’ and Ibn al-Mubârak’s al-Zuhd – and
authenticated by al-Albânî]