Everyone on Earth is looking to be happy. However, few
ask the question: What is happiness? Is it wealth after poverty? Health after
illness? Strength after wretchedness?
Or is it to possess wisdom and
sagacity? To indulge in carnal pleasures? To live a life of absolute freedom,
not even confined by the dictates of morality and faith?
Questions like
these come easily to mind, since happiness is something real. It is not an
illusion. A person of knowledge finds happiness in knowledge. A generous person
finds happiness in giving. An industrious person finds happiness in productive
work. The pleasure that they feel is far greater than the simple pleasures of
eating, drinking, and acquiring wealth.
Yet, the question still remains:
Is this is the utmost degree of human aspirations? Is happiness nothing more?
By nature, a human being is never content. There is always a drive to
seek after something more, something better. A wealthy person seeks after
further acquisitions. A scientist who makes a discovery goes on to another, more
ambitious topic of research.
This restless discontent goes on until a
person aspires to the Lord, and finds peace in worshipping Him and in knowing
that He is protecting and guiding us every step of the way. When `Umar b. `Abd
al-`Azîz became Caliph, he wanted to aspire to an even greater triumph. He said:
"Nothing remains to achieve except Paradise."
No matter how much we
strive and how much we attain in this world, there will always be pain and
discomfort. There will always be sorrows that we are unable to bear on our own.
However, if we set our sights on the Hereafter and work righteousness, we will
find relief and a balm for our worries. There is, in fact, no other way to
attain such peace.
This is because true happiness requires us to aspire
to a higher purpose, to have a noble meaning that we carry forward throughout
our lives. When our sights are set upon such a purpose and we have full
confidence in our Lord, then we can be reconciled to whatever befalls us. Then
we experience true peace and contentment. We neither feel excessive joy at the
good things that come our way nor excessive grief at the losses that we suffer.
If we take the time to look at those around us – really look at them –
we will see the worry and concern written in their faces. Their nice clothes and
their smiling expressions may not indicate their worries, but those worries will
be visible nonetheless. This is because they are engaged in the relentless
competition for material gain, and this preoccupies their hearts and prevents
them from attaining real happiness. The Qur'ân expresses this truth most
eloquently, as if it is speaking about our own day and time. Allah says:
"Rivalry in worldly increase distracts you until you come to the graves."
[Sûrah al-Takâthur: 1-2]
Those who are obsessed with worldly
pursuits, their weary, worry-filled days on Earth come to an all of the sudden,
while they are unprepared.
All the same, happiness is not to be found in
leisure and relaxation, like many people suppose. Happiness is found in
surmounting difficulties, in solving problems, in overcoming one's weaknesses.
An indolent person never experiences the pleasure of achievement. Happiness is
found in the pain that is followed by triumph, in the sorrow that is followed by
joy. It is found in bringing good to people through our endeavors to develop the
Earth. It is found in the noblest expressions of our very humanity.